Selling a home is never just a transaction — especially during a time of personal change.
If you’re going through a divorce or separation, the decision to sell your home can feel like one more pressure on an already full plate. At Bespoke Estate Agents, we’ve helped many people in Reading and the surrounding areas navigate this exact situation.
We understand how emotional and overwhelming it can be — and we’re here to support you, not just as estate agents, but as steady, clear-headed guides when you need it most.
Preparing for a New Chapter
When a relationship ends, things like property, finances, and communication become more complicated. Here are a few key things we’ve seen make the process easier:
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Keep both parties informed (even via a mediator, if needed)
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Agree early on how updates will be shared — we can use WhatsApp or your preferred method
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Get legal advice from a solicitor about your situation
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Let your mortgage provider know — they may offer temporary support
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Choose an estate agent who values neutrality, clarity, and care
In our experience, getting these early decisions right makes a huge difference.
Five Do’s and Don’ts When Selling Due to Divorce
Do seek advice
Whether it’s legal, financial, or property-related - don’t try to figure it all out alone. We’re happy to help or point you in the right direction.
Don’t use a “quick cash” home-buying company
You’ll almost always walk away with less than the open market would have offered.
Do meet with three estate agents
Find someone who listens and earns your trust - not just the one who quotes the highest price.
Don’t be swayed by big promises or cheap fees
Overpricing or under-service usually leads to more stress, not less.
Do choose a relationship-based agent
At a time like this, you need someone who sees you - not just your property.
FAQs – When Selling After Separation
Do we both need to agree to the sale?
In most cases, yes — especially when it comes to pricing, timing, and offers. We’ll make sure everything is discussed clearly and respectfully.
Can one of us buy the other out?
Possibly — we can connect you with an independent mortgage advisor to explore your options.
Can we meet somewhere private, not at the property?
Absolutely. Many clients prefer this and we’re happy to accommodate.
How should we handle viewings if children are involved?
We recommend taking them out during viewings. And because we offer accompanied viewings as standard, you don’t have to be present either.
What if buyers ask why we’re moving?
We’ll help frame your sale honestly but sensitively — it won’t impact buyer interest when done the right way.
Does our divorce solicitor need to do the conveyancing?
Not necessarily. Often, it’s better to use a dedicated conveyancer for the sale — it can be faster and less stressful.
Six Tips for Moving On With Less Stress
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Check with your solicitor before moving out
They’ll guide you on when is best based on your agreement. -
Don’t take everything — especially emotional baggage
Start fresh where you can. Take stock, not just stuff. -
Book your removal company early
They get booked up fast — and this is one less thing to worry about later. -
Start packing in stages
Begin with what you don’t use often. Label everything. Don’t overfill boxes. -
On moving day, be kind to yourself
It’s okay to feel emotional. Have a friend or family member nearby, and keep essentials close. -
First night? Keep it simple
You’ve earned a takeaway and a quiet evening. The rest can wait until tomorrow.
Why People Choose Bespoke Estate Agents
We’ve been helping homeowners across Reading for over 30 years — and we know every move is unique. During a divorce or separation, what you need most is clarity, compassion, and a calm plan.
Here’s what we offer:
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Sensitive communication with both parties
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Clear marketing strategy designed around your needs
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Five-star reviews from past clients who’ve been in your shoes
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No hard sell, no pressure — just steady support and straight answers
We focus on long-term relationships, not quick wins. If you’d like a confidential, no-pressure conversation about your next steps, we’re here when you’re ready.
Talk to Us in Confidence
Download our Divorce & Separation Guide (PDF): Copy of Divorce or separation guide
Call 0118 967 0005
Email hello@mybespokeagent.com
Based at 200 Brook Drive, Green Park, Reading RG2 6UB
